spoken: Ben,27 years old, IT engineer
little by little, my parents good impression of Jane.
Jane is my first love, starting from the sophomore year we fell in, go to our break last, there is a very long time, I have a very strong idea wanted to marry her. I believe that she was really to deal with this affair. Until now, I still think so.
after graduation, Jane and I went well in finding work. Jane is a normal school, as summa cum laude, colleges recommended a key high school. She is from Shanghai, got the work is still pretty lucky. I go to a software company, it can be considered to apply. Originally did not quite agree with my parents and Jane, because she is from Shanghai. However, fortunately, she was very hard work in the city. Later, every weekend, Jane will come to my house for dinner, she rushed to do chores. Little by little, my parents good impression of Jane up, our relationship would be recognized.
so I take it for granted that, and the marriage of Jane will be smooth sailing all the way.
Jane is typical of the kind of girls in the North, stubborn, sometimes very violent temper, but has a kind heart. Along the way, our feelings are always calm and normal. Originally I graduated and Jane agree to marry, but then matured, I felt a little savings. In this connection, Jane fully endorsed my ideas.
2006 end of the year when I made a more than a lot of bonus, I have wanted to marry them. Spring Festival for the second year, I spoke to Jane back to her hometown. After that was our first time I see her parents. Her home is in the local medium and downwards economic level, parents have no culture. But I didn’t care about them. The door, I was under the orders of parents with the gift, Jane’s parents very happy. That contact a good time, so I take it for granted that, and the marriage of Jane will be smooth sailing all the way.
originally, this should be a happy meeting.
over the Spring Festival with us back to Shanghai, officially planning to get married, and started looking for the marriage. In fact, I already have two houses, is set in the city centre is relatively small, larger set of remoteness, not quite meet the requirements of Jane units close or easily accessible. With their parents after our discussion, we decided to sell the big house, for a two-room of the parents and more recently at a Hall. After a series of trips and explore a way, in the end, we managed to find a desirable House. House prices are relatively high at that time, after a 50% down, the rest need I also with Jane, she is very straightforward, no complaints. Repay the 5,000 a month, my 3,000 and her 2000. Of course, the card is write her name, in addition to our name, along with my mom and dad.
51 later, Jane received the Shanghai parents, my parents are also said to be set should meet with relatives. My dad borrowed a hotel room in our neighborhood, Jane’s parents live in comfort, originally, it should be a happy meet, however
. on the marriage will be talking about money, my parents asked the woman’s home at the outset: what are the requirements? What are local customs? But Jane’s parents do not know why, probably near the daughter to the payer, countless excessive demands, such as the bride price to 200,000 in the North-East of local wedding table. I was really uncomfortable, punching said we not begin to print paper money printing factory. Didn’t expect, this sentence without the brain of pique, he lit the fuse of war. That meeting, last made a discord. That night, they run the check-out, leaving my dad borrowed hotel.
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